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What Do You want? Before we go any further with all of this, there is a question that needs to be answered. What do you really want? How can you get what you want if you don't know what you want? Let me explain that. There are really very few major things that we are looking for in life. And all of the rest of the things that we go after in life support us in having those few major things. Let me give you an idea what some of those major things are. The first one is survival. Without that, there is nothing else. We want to be happy. We want personal power. We want personal freedom. We want to be at peace with ourselves. We want to be acknowledged. We want respect. We want to be accepted. We want to feel like we belong. We want to feel safe. We want to feel like we have control over our lives. We want to have self-confidence. We want to be loved. Notice that none of those things are material things. None of them cost a cent and we can have them all. The crazy thing is that we have always been taught that all of those things need to come from somewhere outside of ourselves. I've got news for you. That is just not true. We can give each one of those things to ourselves. Look at any goals that you have. Ask yourself what reaching that goal will do for you. What do you really get from reaching that goal? See how many of them end up giving you one or more of the things that are listed above. You want a new house? What will it get you? You will get to feel safe. You may get to feel happy. You may get to feel at peace. You may feel like you belong You want to get into a great relationship? What will it get you? You may get to feel loved You may get to feel accepted. You may get to feel happy You may get to feel safe. You may get to feel at peace. Do not get me wrong. Having a new house is great. A great relationship is wonderful Making a lot of money sounds good to me. I could enjoy a new car. They could all enhance the quality of my life. I do not see any merit in living broke, and alone in a shack without any transportation. I can enjoy all of the good things in life. The point is that you can have all of the things listed above without the new house or car or relationship or any of the outside things. In fact, once you figure out how to give yourself the things listed above, the car, the relationship, the house and all of those other outside things will come to you a lot easily. You will prove that to yourself as we go along. So, how do we give those things to ourselves. You will see that as we go through the site.

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